An Amazing 1st Date

[MonteLDS]

thanks lonewolf.

For all i know things won't work out with Jennifer and I. It sounds like a handful of you people think it won't. And Kristin and I talked, and agreed that if things don't work out on her side too we will date each other.

Kristin and I have so much in common it is crazy! I like her a lot, but their is no reason to go after something you cannot have at the moment.

I love Jennifer. So to me, both people seem like good things. I really think if Jennifer & I are meant to be it will happen this time around. If not then I for some reason really think Kristin and I would hook up a little later on...

Kristin & I are keeping our distance from each other so that we don't wreck our current relationship. She really likes who she is seeing, and I obvouisly like who I am seeing.

Everything works out in the end.. am i right?

[Jim]

A opinion from an objective observer:

You need to go nuclear and forgot about both. It sounds like you would be settling for 2nd, 3rd, or 4th best with this Jennifer person and just end up with buyer's regret later. The Kristin person would still be dating you if she felt the same connection as you. She may have been looking for a way out without hurting your feelings.

From reading the responses from others and your determination to these two people, I can't help but wonder if your religious affiliation is limiting your pool of applicants in your mind and that is why you're stressing so much with these two people. If this is the case, you need to move to a location with a larger pool of applicants.

I also agree with LoneWolf's advice about a religous match. If your partner goes to church 52 times a year plus holidays and you don't, even if you are of the same religion, you are likely headed to some problems later down the line if not sooner.

[MonteLDS]

Jim their is no way i am moving to Utah! people there are sometime so fake. I am sure that since I have such a small pool that i really stick with people... But i am trying also to learn to except that I may never get married.

[hoxlund]

don't get me started on mormons and utah

btw life is tottally kickass in Iowa now

[MonteLDS]

you might want to change your location Iowa boy..

Californa > World

[dolphinius_rex]

you might want to change your location Iowa boy..

Californa > World

Not to me! I'm glad I escaped California at an early age

Gosh, I might have developed an ACCENT if I hadn't!

[Ian]

Jim their is no way i am moving to Utah! people there are sometime so fake.

And California isn't full of fake people with fake noses and fake boobs??

You better move before all the people make it fall into the ocean.

[CowboySlim]

And California isn't full of fake people with fake noses and fake boobs??

You better move before all the people make it fall into the ocean.

No, not quite full. There is BuddhaTB, TCAS and myself as starters (and maybe finishers).

Hey, what's wrong with going to Utah? I'm going two weeks from today. Be in St. George the following day. 10-4? Then turn South and go up onto the Shivwits Plateau of the Arizona Strip. I'll be in Utah proper for about two hours. Not even going to Kanab or Colorado City this time.

[CowboySlim]

Do you think that if I had a fake nose, I would have chosen it that red? If I would have chosen otherwise, how would it match my neck?

[Ian]

Do you think that if I had a fake nose, I would have chosen it that red? If I would have chosen otherwise, how would it match my neck?

lol!

Personally, I like Utah. I've been there a number of times and I really can't complain. Great scenery. Very nice people.