If you're concerned about bonding enough to rule out TY, then don't get BenQ DVDRs! Daxon puts special effort into the Sony brand media they make, but their own BenQ brand media doesn't get the same respect! The bonding on it is worse then both Taiyo Yuden, and even Prodisc! (Prodisc having also worse bonding then TY).
Between BeAll and Optodisc, I'd expect Optodisc to have better support. You may want to burn the 16x DVD+Rs at 12x or 8x for best results though.
One more thing.... if the Optodisc isn't A Grade, then it's not going to be much better then Prodisc or TY for bonding. A Grade Optodisc is really good for bonding though!
Punch Cards -> Paper Tape -> Tape Drive -> 8" Floppy Diskette -> 5 1/4" Floppy Diskette -> 3 1/2" "Flippy" Diskette -> CD-R -> DVD±R -> BD-R
The Progression of Computer Media